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Old 03-09-2006, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by bromanchik
It is a lot easier on the children to have a relationship wih a birthparent from the beginning. Introducing the birthmom at the onset of puberty, when there are so many changes and stressors happening in the lives of children, is not optimal.

I have seen this in my son's life, he's only 6 but the acceptance he has for us and our situation is amazing.
I'm not sure he'd have that if I was just introduced at this age.
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Open Adoption Birthmother to T. February 13, 2000



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