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Originally Posted by Jensboys
Gmom - I have heard of families having weekly vists for the first month or two, but not ever agreeing to that for life. I dont "visit" with ANYONE weekly and in the busyness of raising kids it wouldnt even be possible. I have a feeling that arrangement wouldn't be agreeable or workable for very many families.
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We tried it and it just didn't work for us - when my son was first born. It was too much for me and I was having a hard time letting go and accepting the reality of the adoption. I know the adoptive parents also were feeling overwhelmed. Jen's right, I don't visit with anyone, except my mom on a weekly basis and honestly I don't think it's realistic with the hectic life my son's family lives.