[MrsD820]

Originally Posted by dpen6

The r3eality is that as horrible as it is for you to deal with your issues, it is NOT the responsability of others to make you a parent...it is not the resposability of a little baby to fufill your dreams, it is not the responsability of society to provide you with a baby because you want one....

If in fact you want to take on the commirmwnt of parenting and you will parent through adoption, you really need to educate yourself on the different members of the triad...each of them have seperate but just as important issues that need to be known about.

So what you're saying is because I can't have kids of my own and because I won't feel comfortable with open adoption, that I can't and shouldn't adopt?

I guess I came to the wrong place.

The answer to my question I posted at the begining of this thread is a definite NO.