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Old 03-06-2006, 06:27 PM
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Isnt that why we have a relationship?

Well, at least for us, its certainly the reason the relationship was created – but our relationship has grown expeditiously since placement ten years ago. We’re friends, family and so much more.

We talk about dinner.
We talk about our weekend plans.
We talk about Dr. Phil and how much he annoys us.
We talk about photography.
We talk about our marriages, our husbands, our kids, our families, our mothers…etc.

I couldn’t imagine calling S on the phone and saying, “So, how is M? How is school? Is she getting good grades? How tall is she?

All of that stuff just comes up in our every day (and I do mean almost every day) to day conversations…but I don’t think I’ve ever just come out and asked…

For the record, we talk 1-2 hours every time we talk – and its usually 5-6 times a week…you can only talk about a child so much – even if you do think they are amazing!
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