[NaomiNJaysmom]

I have a different situation because both birthparents asked for grandparent contact only. They felt it was important that their parents had contact because it was not their choice to place their grandson for adoption. I am asked EVERYTIME I e-mail write or call about our son. I was relieved however that birthdad asked about him right away the one time he did happen to answer the phone. I was glad he felt comfortable enough to ask. Maybe it was because he was an adoptee himself. I dont know but I do know that I believe it would bother me just a bit if they didnt ask. Isnt that why we have a relationship? Maybe a birth mom can help answer that.