[mamacrina]

Good question, Brandy. I don't think I'm hurt or offended when she doesn't ask about dd...just confused. I admit I thought more of our conversation would be babe-centered. Though, during the match it wasn't. Sure, we'd talk about her pregnancy, how she felt, how babe was doing, but we concentrated on getting to know each other. I guess I thought she'd ask more now, because she's not with her...ya know?

I would prefer thinking as you do, Brandy. And I'm trying. But I second guess myself (aka worry) so much that I wonder if I make it difficult for her to ask. Am I sending out "don't question me" vibes? lol

But in reality, we email, write letters, send pics (as well as have an online storage site), so she knows how she is. One time she said something along the lines of "I want to know how YOU two are...the ones taking care of J. You are important to me,too...and I need to know how YOU are."