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Guilty
Brandy - I am guilty of what you are referring to.
I guess my concern came because the adoption was so very new and Addy's bmom wanted us to get involved with her latest crisis. I really wanted to keep our relationship focused on Addy. I didn't want to become a huge source of support for her becuase her life was such a mess, we could have easily gotten sucked in. Hope this makes sense.
I can definitely see how down the road, if a relation ship between mature adults has developed, that the adopted child wouldn't need to be the center of every conversation.
Martha
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