[traceyk]

We talked in depth to our neighbor who is a 40 something adoptee. His advice to us was to tell Drihan she is adopted, but not to keep talking about it and bringing it up. He said he knew he was adopted and that was fine, but if his family had kept talking about it, he would have felt uncomfortable and different than his sibling. He also said he never had any desire to find his b-family because the family that raised him was his family and that was all he ever needed.