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Thanks for responding, I talked with dh right after writing and slowed me down a bit. I appreciate the book, and KNEW it would be hard reading...I just didn't realize how scared i was. It's almost like you are protective over your future child. If it means they would be better off, I would not adopt and have no children. My dh actually laughed at me and said "Already getting protective huh?"
I'm trying to read the book entirely because i think it's great to realize what COULD happen. I just wish it gave more insight to what we can do. I will say it made me realize how important it is for me to need to send an email to all those closest and educate them on things that should be and should not be said to my children ((("you are so lucky to have parents like that"))), attachment issues that might be faced and what we might do (may hold our child constantly or not have a lot of people around at once), etc.
Whew, okay i'm a little better, but would still LOVE to hear your comments/suggestions...
Natalie
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