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Old 03-05-2006, 12:23 PM
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Interesting, I have thought about this along the way. I would notify my family first because they could come be with us, and I have those numbers in my head. Birthmom would be the other priority above friends. We're semi-open thru the agency and e-mail but I'd find her. I have her name, and other family members names, she would deserve to know, and I hope we would be able to get her to us(buy a ticket, whatever) if she wanted.

Another twist to this I've thought about is what if Birthmom would have a terminal illnes or something, would she want to meet DD? We WOULD find a way to get there if she wanted.

Sometimes I think I think too much, but this stuff would be important to have thought out ahead of time, at least I think so.

Interested to read others' thoughts,
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