Thank you FH-Redheaded you addressed the situation wonderful. I love your suggestions. He is very smart(much more than I was at his age) I will always respect his Bmom and his past,keep him safe and comfortable.
He dies see his past foster mom and his foster "brother" every few months, we even spkoe of him comming over our house for a visit, I will always keep him involved throughout my sons life, I would never deny him of his concerns.
A mom2Two, thank you for your input. I would never let my son think he wasn't wanted and only adopted because of my infertility, we had discussed adopting even before we knew we could not. I maybe explained my answer incorrrectly. He was very much part of our family.
Debbie
