Relationship with pbmom or afterward
I had a relatiionship with the adoptive mom while I was pregnant, I thought that she was my friend. I was under the impression that our relatioship was going to stay that way after the birth and that she was going to remain my friend. Well, I was wrong. After birth and after relquishment I became nothing but a throne in her side, she wanted nothing to do with me. She wont answer me calls, she wouldnt answer emails, hell I still havent gotten a thank out of either one of them and he also 3 monthes old. I started to feel that it was just an act that she put on to get a baby. That maybe what you pbmom is thinking. I wish I would have thought all those nights that I was talking to her on the phone. In the three monthes that have pasted, I have received 15 pictures and 2 emails. Not what I wanted. I feel lied to and cheated. So maybe she is just protecting her heart or maybe she thinking that she wants to parent cause given what I know now, I would have never placed my baby in the adoptive mothers arms. I would have picked someone who kept her word. So with that I will stop talking.
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