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She said she choose international adoption because the children seem to accept adoption much better. Maybe it's because they were placed in an orphange and are thankful to have a family, that makes the difference. They don't seem to have the anger issues as much as some of the adoptee's from our country. They don't seem to hate the adoptive parents and feel BLESSED that they were adopted.
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I think that no matter where an adoptee comes from there will always be a percentage that have identity issues or anger about their adoption. Just like there are adoptees who have no issues about their adoption.
The above statement seems like a HUGE generalization to me and IMO it will be a couple of decades before you can really tell what the lifelong affects are on international adoptees.
If you were to poll biologically related people I bet you would find just as many who "hate" their parents (especially in the 13-19 age range). It is unfair to say that because someone is adopted and questions who they are that they hate their aparents or have anger issues.