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shoshana...again, I agree with you. IMO....people/children/parents have similaties that no matter where on is from will feel the same. For instances a mothers love is universal, a parents loss feels the same no matter what country one is from. As is...a child may have idenity issues(NO THAT DOES NOT MAKE ONE AN ANGRY ADOPTEE), may have questions may even want to search. To an adoptive parent, does that mean an adoptee is less satisfied? What signifies a satisfied adpotee?
Don't get me strated on the grate4ful thing....OF course I am grateful for the way my life panned out...it just seems to me that an adoptee is made to feel MORE grateful then any other child....biochildren...IMO.if brought up in a good home should also feel grateful. But it seems that adoptee "should" feel grateful for food and shelter after all they were not stuck in the orphanage. In my mind every child deserves that and it is up to the parents whether adopted or bio to provide it...
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