I've always kept a picture of my son out in a frame. It was the last picture I got of him when he was one.
I now have senior pictures of him and I'm in the process of redoing our family picture wall that goes up our stairway and I plan to add his there.
When people have asked I tell them the truth. I have yet to have anyone say anything negative (and I've had a couple of those judgemental types in my famiyl too). Or I guess I should say nothing negative has been said to my face.
Whatever people choose to think about me is really no concern because I'm proud of my first born
