Stephanie,
I can understand how you feel. My mother thinks I'm nuts complaining about the extended wait time for referral. She says "Don't you have your hands full already?". She thinks the longer I wait, the better. Even though I DO have my hands full, I would love to get my daughter tomorrow!
For you it must be even harder since your boys are no longer babies and you are craving another little one. I hold my boys as much as I can, knowing that soon they won't let me hold them as they become more and more independent.
This wait is hard for all of us. All I can say is let's all be here to support one another during this time.
