Donna:Each case is different and in my case b/dad and I went on to marry.Also lindsay's parents were deceased when we reunited.I suppose in that sense our reunion was very different,although would have liked to have met them and said thank you for doing what I could not at that time.
As for expectations it would be up to each person to let the other side know where to tread.If we all respect each other no matter which side one is on then we can and will have a healthy and happy reunion.
Just my opinion....
