|
Stacy,
We are also in a contested adoption and our DS is 10 mos old!
Our situation is a bit different in that bdad contested, we went to court, WON, and now he's appealing that. It freaks me to think he could win and get DS when he's 18+ mos (which is how long we've been told appeal will take). We are all he knows and loves.
IMO, bdad had a chance and he blew it. Move on. We would even include him in updates (we send them to bmom), even tho we wouldn't have to.
This process makes me ill whenever I think about it!
__________________
S. J. born April 05
FINALIZED lucky Friday 10-13-06 
"And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I
Would like to say to you but I don't know how...
Cause maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonder wall"
|