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We didn't intend to adopt a toddler, but our adoption was complicated. Our infant referral was almost two years old when we brought her home. I had read the books on attachment with toddlers and tried to be as prepared as possible for the "worst-case scenario". However, our little girl settled in with very few problems. She's been home a year, is attached well, chatters away in English and is generally delightful.
Our biggest challenge was with our other children. The two closest in age to her had some difficulty adjusting initially. A baby taking some of Mommy's attention is one thing...but a little one who can take toys, talk and assert herself was a little much for them! After a few drama-filled weeks, everything settled down though.
I know every situation is different, but our's made me a supporter of toddler adoption.
Good luck with your decision,
Chris
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