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Does anyone tell any of you that it's NOT healthy?
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Kara's aparents got that a bit. Most of the time it was from people who were scared I'd run off with Kara if I knew where they lived. Me sneaking into their home in the middle of the night to run off with Kara just seems rediculous to me, but I guess I can see how someone might think people would do that, you know, since that's how Lifetime and WE portrays BP's.
But anyway, even if the bp's are unstable (which I dont think is the majority at all) I think it's still healthy to have an open relationship.
And why I say that is... Would you want your child to know about their birthfamily issues while you're there to help them sort out how they feel about it? Or would you rather have your child learn about those issues after they've grown up and you're not there to support your child? So, IMO, open is always better, even if the bp's are unstable.