We fell in love with a toddler in our agency's website and went for him. Unfortunately that referral did not work out for us

I don't know how your agency works- if you get to pick your child out of the agency's web site
or if he/she is given to you? For us we had heard that
there may be more difficulties with bonding and attachment with a toddler but we were willing to take
these on. I had already read the book- Toddler Adoption the Weaver's Craft- excellent book on toddler adoption
that I would highly recommend. Good luck with your
decision! Pray that God will put the answer on your
heart.