Is their anyway for your husband and you to get out once a week for a couple of hours? When our daughter came she was diagnosed with RAD, those first couple of year were horrible. The thing that help was our wonderful attachment therapist, classes related to foster/adoption our county put on, walks, and time out once a week with my dh.
These kids will suck the life force out of you, try to add in things that help build you up so you can parent in a way your proud of. Our daughter today is a happy loving 5yr old who is a delight, but still a pain in the butt! LOL
