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You can't let her wear you down or get the best of you. I recently saw a new Love and Logic book written especially for kids 6 and under. You might see if that is more specific to your issues. And if L and L is done consistently and you don't wear down, she CAN'T undermine it because the principle is the consequence comes back to haunt her. If, like many RAD kids, she could care less about most consequences, so be it. Let her sit and do nothing until she can master the most basic parameters of being in a family.
Glad to hear your hubby is on board. You were a couple before you had this child. Put her and her behaviors in the background. Make her dance to your tune, not the other way around. If she can't (WON'T) dance, she sits. Have fun with the other kids.
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