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Thanks,
I am hoping that I didn't portray my husband as not being on board, I think he is just frustrated like me. The differnece is, he see's what she is doing to me and that puts the added frustration into it. We are a strong couple who have been through hell and back with a lot of other struggles. We are aware that she will try to divide and concor so to speak, I just see him backing away from her a bit and I see her pushing him to do it. I have read the "Love and Logic" book which I believe is a wonderful resource, but it lasted less than a week before she realized what it was and totally underminded it. I have read many books at this point.. I have read, and read and in my head I could explain the perfect solution to most every situation we come into.. I just can't seem to impliment them. She weres me down. I have started the "you need to stay with me" when I catch her lie. I expained to her that I can not help her make good choices if I can't see her. She hates this and I do too! She tantrums the entire time! I have tried turning the radio on and singing to the baby or singing just to ignore the fits while I busy myself. I am to transparent and she knows she is angering me. I guess I am just going through a bad time. Went to the psycologist this morning and they altered her med a bit but honestly I am not expecting much because I dont' think this is the right med for her anyway. Sirky how do you do it????
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