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May I also make the comment that extended family also needs to get their crap in order within a reasonable time period if they plan to step forward. We were at the last court hearing, Bparents TPR no family had come forward, and we were in the paperwork for the future adoption plan, when the (young)grandparents step up and now they are prolonging things months longer for this little one. They have been told they most likely wont pass the homestudy and the dept wont ever recommend them. They are just giving it a try so they look good and just in case the judge sees them as good enough. So they have months and months to try to get their disfunctional lives straightened up. In the mean time baby is in limbo. Frustrating system.
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