[michellemartin]

I think younger is better. I "met" my bdaughter at three months, six months, one year, 11 months... okay, you get the idea.

She'll grow up with us always in her life. She'll never have to wonder who I am or who her bdad is. She'll always know. She'll never have to feel that anyone is hiding anything from her, because we're all there and support her (bfam and afam).

AND this is in no way confusing for the daughter I parent who is almost eight years old. She thinks it's great to be able to visit Kara. Not only that, but she thinks that it's simple to understand that her and Kara are sisters but have different moms! So, confusion is really just not an issue.