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Originally Posted by AnnaE
 I am so sorry for your loss! This was inhumane for both the child and you. It should never be done this way. I am a fostermom, adoptive mom (and bio mom) also degree in Child Psychology. To prevent future attachment issues, transitions need to be done slowly, carefully with the child's best interests first! There had to have ben a way to make this better. I do understand how you were feeling. Not only grief but thinking that little guy was feeling you abandoned him. He needed to know you still love him and care...and a gradual easing into the new home with your encouragement. I am so sorry this happened. I really thought professionals understood the consequences of this kind of placement. All you can do now is remember the love you gave him will always be with him. Peace, AnnaE |
I agree...am still not over it but now am fighting the system to ensure this doesn't happen again to any child...meeting with Senators next week. Wish me luck! Thank you so much for your response. Am printing this out and showing this to the people who allowed this to transpire. Thank you!