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Originally Posted by mamabee
I finally made a decision to live again...so I sent her an email asking her forgiveness of anything I did wrong and told her that I would not email her again but wanted to say I am sorry and goodbye. Since then, I blocked her from being able to send me anymore emails (they were only hurtful) and have put away the reminders so I can try to have a normal life again.
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Barbara this must be incredibly difficult for you..
I know when I stopped contact with my bson.. Some people told me.. “Nooooo do not do it.” But I had to have that break.. A complete break..
Down time..
Dear Dr. Art..
I have done some searching for some old posts on who is really the parent of a relinquished son or daughter..
Dr Art wrote words I needed to hear in the thread.. Dear Dr Art.. (link above)
Quote from Dr Art
“On the other side, the birth parent has placed the child for their own good reasons and, if the parent has come to terms with that decision, it is not unusual for there to be some emotional distance and hence not a strong feeling of connection.”
And I ask the question .. What is wrong with that emotional distance???
Jackie