[RussiaBoundMom]

I don't understand why people think they have a right to ask about my daughter's history. It seems everyone wants to know why her birth mother gave her up and all the gritty details. This is a sensitive issue with me and I don't offer information, it's deeply personal for me and for my daughter. I just tell them that we respect her birthmother for chosing to give birth and then doing what she felt was best for her. I realize that people will never stop asking, and as my daughter understands more of the conversation, I want her to hear the respect I have for her birth mother and also understand that it's not appropriate to share intimate details with just anyone. I just don't understand why people don't realize that it's rude to ask such personal questions!