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I think you've got to balance the risk that IVF may fail vs. the risk that you've already faced - that an expectant parent makes a plan with you that fails & they parent.
The benefit of course to the former is that you give birth, meaning there is no post-birth parent v. place risk. Also, genetically, ethnically, socially this child is 100% yours.
Some choose IVF. They want to be pregnant badly enough that they're willing to go through the emotional, physical, social and financial processes. Some decide that its' not that important to give birth and invest all their emotional, physical, social and financial resources that route.
The only thing I can say for certain is that those who are determined to be parents always will. In both IVF and adoption it's about having the patience, fortitude, focus and determination to be a parent.
HTH, best of luck.
Regina
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