Thanks for reading my post!
What I meant was, my husband and I are both in the military - we (AF members) ofter refer to married members as mil-to-mil. Because we are both Active Duty we are both always going to be at risk for deployments. I am wondering if that is frowned upon in the world of adoption. What (little) that I have found so far is that it doesn't work out very often.
Thanks for the the link...I will check it out
