[amyfk]

Hi Bdaddy,

I can only imagine how much youre discouraged. Just know we're all thinking about you.

Maybe you and your wife have to take a step back for a week or two(or take a long weekend away from home) just for a change of scenery. I'm sure the stress has taken a rough toll on you all.

Then you should sit down and discuss where you want to go. Whatever decision you make for yourselves is the right one. Sometimes we know how long we can wait or deal with a situation, and sometimes we know where our breaking point limit is. As well as thinking about those children you have to think about yourself and your own health and well being as well. If you feel that you can still deal with the unknown, you may want to hang in there, if not, you may have to move on. Only you and your wife know what's best for you.

I hope you find peace and that you take care of yourself during this stressful time. We're all thinking of you.

Amy K, NJ