Hi ya, I can relate to this topic and feel for you...I am reunited with my natural mum and recently natural dad...they live half way around the world from me and the distance makes things very difficult...it takes a lot of energy to sustain any kind of progressive relationship and at times focus wanes and contact is disrupted. I have been reunited with natural mum for 15 years now, there have been long periods of time that we didn't communicate...there were other times we felt the need to keep in touch every week or so...Meeting someone who is a stranger in many ways and in many ways not is a freaky thing to have to deal with...I truly believe that we will spend our whole lives dealing with it...there is no place of absolute acceptance but I prefer to view the relationship as one that is forever growing. Take time out if you need it and I am sure you will get recharged and able to slowly bond....J
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