first I have to laugh (sorry), since my dh never gets them and he's a few months older than me. I've been waiting for a guy to get these comments-mean of me I know.
it's easier for guys because they're seen as a stud for having a kid while older, while women are just seen as crazy.
I just say "nope, she's my daughter" and then enjoy it as they squirm and feel icky. sometimes it hits when you're feeling poorly and then it does kind of hurt, but thankfully that's rare.
and let me know when he smacks someone-I'll help fund his legal bills. some of those folks need a good slap
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btw, I was just telling dh last night how I enjoyed going to one park in Pasadena because all the moms and dads are old
. Rare to see a 20 something there. Now at another park, they're all 20 somethings or nannies. I like the old folks park better.
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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