[Waiting4OURBOY]

I just loved your comment about not wanting to forget about the miscarriage. We had our precious son pass away in May of '05 when he was just 4 days old. We had also had a very early miscarriage the previous June. The due date for the first preg. was Feb. 11th. I still think about even this year when he or she would have been 1. Also, everyone is so excited about the adoption, that I sometimes feel bad like I am forgetting about my precious son. I have learned special ways to grieve and honor his memory. I lead an elementary school choir and at our December concert, we sang a special song and I dedicated it in memory of my son. It was my special way of not forgetting about him. I have now learned that it is ok to be happy and to still grieve my loss. Just wanted to share.