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what bothers me is that she offers a decision affecting three people thru the lens of just one person. what really could work is that everyone involved get some therapy, bring in a 4th person, a therapist that can really talk to the daughter without both moms, could read the poetry that bmom sends, and if she's willing and able talk to bmom, talk to amom and see what she's feeling -as an amom I know there are emotions there that need to be explored. sara, the daughter, does need to be able to have some input here. teens are a mess mostly (the emotions part) and this is a situation full of emotion. if there ever was a need for an intelligent party to talk to them all and provide guidance, this is it.
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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