I agree with FH Bassette. We don't know how long ANY of us will be on this Earth.
Lisamarie8 - I'd tell your friends to give it a try. I'm sure they've already overcome many obstacles in life and would be able to teach many life lesons to heir child. I just saw An Adoption Story on Discovery where a man was disabled and had many issues, but he and his wife adopted. Children deserve a loving home, and if your friends can provide that, that's what matters.
I may just need to stay off these message boards for a while. Lately, many posts are upseting to me
