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Originally Posted by FH-Montraviatommyg
I suffer with depression which my son knows about but accepts and knows I'm dealing with it now thanks to a sensible doctor who listened to me and took me seriously. At times last year I went for a while of feeling I couldn't cope with reunion but since I've had proper help I can now.
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Thank you for your thoughtful response.
I'm glad you found a doctor who can help you. Depression and chronic illness are affecting key players on both sides of the equation. I have no doubt that this creates extra challenges in an already strained situation.
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Reunion doesn't work for everybody though for various reasons so I do believe you should do what's best for you. If this means pulling away completely or pulling back for a while do it for your own health as much as anything.
Pip 
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Yes this has been my conclusion. I feel enourmous guilt and sadness about it, but at this point, it's all that I can do.