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Brandy,
My dh and I are at the beginning of the process as well, but we know that we intend on having a sib group. I think the very beginning of that decision was not being able to decide on a gender. So we agreed on both. (There was a bit more that went into that decision, but that's the nutshell version.)We've had lots of exposure to taking care of several children at one time, so when DH started looking at TARE's sib groups and falling in love he started saying, "We can do that." When he saw a group of 6, he started talking about how we could remodel even. LOL! (I don't think we're quite ready for that.) It doesn't seem like there was ever an aha moment, but more of a gradual progression while we fleshed everything out.
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