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DH had a vasectomy early in life (when he was in a long-term relationship with someone else who already had a child). He did it not because he didn't want to parent, but because he felt like you - he had the opportunity to parent her child without adding more populace to an already troubled world. When we met, he told me about the vasectomy and was completely willing to reverse it. But after several years of debating what the right course of action would be, we decided to leave it alone and adopt. I too feel that the important thing is parenting, not spawning.
Our agency had no problem with the fact that we tried no invasive measures first.
Best of luck to you!!!
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Alison
Married to Doug - 9/20/03
Mom to 3 kitties
Starting over with new agency!
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