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Don't be hard on yourself. You should grieve because that was your baby you lost and God gives us that grieving period to heal us. I don't think you will ever completely get over losing your child but you will continue to heal esp. with your adoption but you will still feel sad over your loss. I had a miscarriage for our 1st and then had 3 bio children. Our 3rd daughter had a terminal illness and died at 10 months old. That was 3 years ago for her and 9 years ago for my miscarriage and I still feel a loss for both of them even though we have adopted 2 more daughters. Allow yourself time to grieve and don't feel guilty or bad. I think you can do both grieve and rejoice over your other kids you are adding to your family.
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