The fear of a reversal is exactly why we chose international adoption. The pull for us was that families are not refered a child until after their birth and the child is not placed in your home until the adoption is final. My heart needed that safeguard.
Depending on the country program it can be more or less than domestic adoption. You can learn heaps about the domestic adoption program on the General Adoptive Parents forum. There are many active members willing to share their experiences.
Oh and thanks for your nice comments,...both of you.
