[mom3boys]

We have three little boys ages 6,3,and 1. Our oldest son knows about the adoption and seems to be excited about it. Of course he relates it all to himself and is excited that he won't need afterschool care as Mom will be home then. He also hopes he will get money from "Chinese people" on Chinese New Year when his sister is here.
I have always been pretty honest with the kids when there is a new one on the way. The oldest has had some interest, but I don't think that he will get overwhelmed with the wait. He is too focused on his everyday activities to think about it much. You should always do what feels right as a parent. We know what is the best for them.
Marjorie