[ally123]

here we go again!! Our 6 month old fs just did 2 overnights with bmom. She called dhs today and once again is complaining and complaining about us. It is so frustrating. The hard part this week is that the cw is gone for the week so the complaints go to a different worker who then must follow up on them (this worker was very nice and apologetic that she even had to go over these with me). One of the ironic things about this is that bmom is making herself look bad along with us. She is complaining that he didn't have a coat on- he has always been transported in carseats with blankets and the carseat cover- I don't leave the cover at daycare when he is going on overnight visits because bmom supplies her own- I do leave blankets. This time she somehow talked a new in-home worker into picking up the baby and dropping off the baby at daycare so there was no cover for the seat and bmom freaked- she then sent him back the same way (if she was so concerned shouldn't she have put a coat on him - I would have if I new he wasn't going to have a carseat cover.) She has also transported him back after visits without anything over him- but that is different I guess?!?!? Then she complains about him being dirty and says we have a dirty house (that she has NEVER seen) so now sw has to make a visit to our house today- I don't care it is just frustrating. She also complained about the flat spot on the back of his head saying we let him lay on his back all the time and that we are treating him different because he is bi-racial. I guess she seemed to be caught up in the bi-racial thing recently which is riduculous to me- he is a baby, a child who just needs love and attention- what does it matter if he is bi-racial or not!! She has refused to let our area education agency come in and work with her to discuss the flatness on his head and his weak neck muscles (I have met with them twice already- through dhs) if she was so concerned she should try to help him!!!

Sorry for going on and on- I just really really needed to vent and I am so glad I found my way here. I appreciate all the help I get. Dh just tells me to let it go and not let it bother me so much but that is hard.

I just can't wait to leave here (I'm at work- working really hard!!) so I can go pick up M and just hug him and play with him and let the rest of this be forgotten until the next visit when I am sure there will be new complaints!!!!!