Congratulations!
I have not been able to locate any support groups in our area. You are onto something about starting our own support group.
I would recommend Black Baby, White Hands by Dr. Jaiya Johns. I had the opportunity to hear him speak. He's very inspiring. The book is about his childhood growing up as the first black baby adopted by a white family in New Mexico (I think, or was it Arizona...I read it a while ago.

) Anyway, he's devoted his life to studying adoption and transracial adoption.
I would love to chat with all of you, too.
Since my son is a toddler, I've been looking for good transracial adoption books for kids. I've come across a few. If you're interested, I can pm a list.