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dolly2,
I am sorry that your family is going thru this.
I have a friend that was married a few years ago. He and his wife became foster parents. About two months after they received a sibling set of two (they had known these kids for many many months) the wife decided that it was too much for her. She told her husband that if she got pregnant again (she had lost several) that he would have to let these two kids go. She basically said that it was "them (the kids) or me". My friend said "OK, these kids have already lost enough and have had their life screwed up - I am not giving up on them." He then took the kids to his mother's for the night.
Long story short, the husband and wife never lived in the same house again. My friend and the kids stayed with his mother for a week or so until his wife could move out. He then moved the kids back into the house and has been "happily" divorced (if there is such a thing) for over a year now. This guy has been a divorced foster dad of a boy and girl now for over a year.
Of course, my friend contacted the caseworker asap and did everything that we was suppose to do. I don't really know what the rules are - but I just wanted to let you know that in some cases things do work out.
Good luck to you and my thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Christina
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