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I agree with everyone. The bdad is absent right now but that could change, in 6 mths, 2 years, 5 years, etc he could come around or his family will want involvement....it can change overnite. I think it is best to accept he wants no day to day involvement and then carry on being a wonderful mother!!! Enjoy that tiny baby - being a mother is the BEST - also it is seriously hardwork, emotional, sleep depravation...not to mention the washing!!!! But it is the best. As a bmother I totally regret my decision. Yep the bfather pressured me - infact he pressured me to have an abortion and was very pleased that I carried through with an adoption plan. But it was all wrong for me. So stop thinking about him!!!! I know you and baby will have a great life...pleased don't give up the magic of motherhood.
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