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I have a brother 2yrs younger then me who is my a/parents bio son, they didn't have infertility issues and I have a feeling its mostly because of my dad that they chose to adopt before having bio kids.
My brother and I were treated "equally", yet somehow he's always managed to spin things to his advantage, in the end, mostly because I prefer to sort things out myself rather then rely on anyone, whereas he has no problem with that. My last girlfriend pointed out to me that I never actually say "I want" the best I manage is "I would like", I think it some respects it may be because I dont feel as though I deserve anything.
I don't believe its possible to treat children the same as each other given that they as individuals will always have different needs, but they should be loved equally.
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