Aura,
You and I have exchanged communication on a thread in forum: Communication Between Birth Parents and Adopted Parents. I would like to hyper-link this thread here...
The countdown,...
...as well as add some additional comments...
...I would like for the aparents to accept my offer to feel like part of my family as I wish I could feel that they want me and my family to feel part of their family.
As you may have read in the above hyper-link, even though I feel our first meeting (aparents and bmother w/ children) went better than all expected, I still didn't come out feeling like they are interested in getting to know me or maintaining contact with me. This hurts me tremendously. I need to have a personal exchange, heart-to-heart, with them to get through these hurtful feelings.
For now, I am maintaining my relationship with my bdaughter and praying that someday her parents will allow me the opportunity for a heart-to-heart.
"Congratulations to all of you on your reunions"