Oh aura,
God bless your Mom. She knew you were tense, and that Dad was feeling stressed....and she just did what mothers do - take birthmom to the side and show her pictures and talk about their child. She truly is a caring sharing loving mother - one you should be proud of. Give her a great big hug for making your daughters birthday a great day for all and for knowing exactly what Dad needed to hear to make his presence necessary.
I was reading through your posts a couple of days ago and read about your hubby's problems at work. How come bmom works there too? (Jenny is your birthmom - right??) Has she always or did Hubby get her the position?
I would love to meet my son's aparents. I don't know if it will happen, but I'm preparing myself in advance.....in case!!!! All good learning reading yours and others reports on the event.
Ann
